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Questionnaires & Ebooks 

These Questionnaires are thought provoking and extensive to add to your journey. They serve for someone in the process of Divorce/Separation as well as before or after.

General Divorce 
Questionnaire

When definitely wanting to start this journey, this questionnaire has all the questions you and your spouse or partner will have to answer in the mediation session.

 

 

Fill in the form at the bottom of this page to request the questionnaire of your choice in the format you require. We will then send you a link to the questionnaire where you can download it and complete it at your own pace.

 

Please note that these documents should be kept confidential and not shared with anyone as they are the Intellectual Property of MEJ Mediation & Coaching.

 

Once you have filled them in and you are still willing to take this journey, ask your spouse/partner to do the same (or alternatively we can contact your spouse/partner). Once completed, please contact us and we can start from there .

Please do not email the questionnaire back to us. We use Dropbox for document sharing. A separate folder is allocated to each party. These folders are password protected and each party will have their own unique folder. A Dropbox link will be shared. This is were any communication or documents will be saved so that the mediator and individual can have access to them. I will review your completed questionnaire in the shared folder. 

Please do not share your answers with your spouse or partner, doing this can jeopardise and hurt your relationship further which will make negotiations even more difficult then it possible already is.

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Considering Divorce Questionnaire

 This questionnaire is designed for person/s who are considering the divorce/separation journey but not 100% sure just yet. 

The questions in this document cover the broad perspective of Family/Relationship matters. You can also complete this questionnaire as a couple to see which areas of your relationship needs working on.

 

The questions are thought provoking and help with putting your concerns and “issues” into perspective, thus helping you realise if ending the relationship is what you have to do or not. If you do decide to go through the divorce/separation journey then these question will prepare you for it and help you plan for a future after the divorce is settled. 

The questions are also the type of questions that will need to be asked in Mediation sessions.

The intention of this questionnaire to help you make sure all areas are covered so that you don’t walk away from your long term relationship with guilt, regret and no ambition. 

Many a time I have come across divorcees that have so much guilt and regret, it consumes their lives and they never move on and remain in a state of bitterness and resentment towards themselves.

Fill in the form at the bottom of this page to request the questionnaire of your choice in the format you require. We will then send you a link to the questionnaire where you can download it and complete it at your own pace.

 

Please note that these documents should be kept confidential and not shared with anyone as they are the Intellectual Property of MEJ Mediation & Coaching.

Once you have filled them in and you are still willing to take this journey, ask your spouse/partner to do the same (or alternatively we can contact your spouse/partner). Once completed, please contact us and we can start from there .

Please do not email the questionnaire back to us. We use Dropbox for document sharing. A separate folder is allocated to each party. These folders are password protected and each party will have their own unique folder. A Dropbox link will be shared. This is were any communication or documents will be saved so that the mediator and individual can have access to them. I will review your completed questionnaire in the shared folder. 

Please do not share your answers with your spouse or partner, doing this can jeopardise and hurt your relationship further which will make negotiations even more difficult then it possible already is.​

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Parenting Plan Questionnaire

This questionnaire is a broad perspective on what is involved in designing a parenting plan.

 This is probably the most important section of the “divorce/separation” agreement. 

This document should be done individually and not shared outside of a mediation session.

When wanting to defiantly start this journey this questionnaire has all the questions you and your spouse/partner will have to answer in mediation sessions.

 

Completing this questionnaire will save you both time and money. 

Fill in the form at the bottom of this page to request the questionnaire of your choice in the format you require. We will then send you a link to the questionnaire where you can download then and fill them in, a your own pace.  

Please note that these documents should be kept confidential and not shared with anyone as they are the Intellectual Property of MEJ Mediation & Coaching.

Once you have filled them in and you are still willing to take this journey, ask your spouse/partner to do the same (or alternatively we can contact your spouse/partner). Once completed, please contact us and we can start from there .

Please do not email the questionnaire back to us. We use Dropbox for document sharing. A separate folder is allocated to each party. These folders are password protected and each party will have their own unique folder. A Dropbox link will be shared. This is were any communication or documents will be saved so that the mediator and individual can have access to them. I will review your completed questionnaire in the shared folder. 

Please do not share your answers with your spouse or partner, doing this can jeopardise and hurt your relationship further which will make negotiations even more difficult then it possible already is.

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Financial Disclosure Form 

Financial Disclosure Forms 

Judge President’s directive 2 of 2020

“A financial disclosure form (“FDF”) annexed to this Section as “FDF1” must be completed under oath, together with the supporting documentation referred to in FDF1 by each party in an opposed divorce action in which maintenance or proprietary relief is in dispute and/or in every opposed Rule 43 application in which maintenance is in dispute. Each party must index and paginate his/her duly completed FDF with supporting documents, prior to the exchange and delivery thereof referred to below.”

Judge President’s Directive 2 of 2020 (February 2020), Par 3.5.1

  • FDF = Financial Disclosure Form 

  • This form has been made mandatory in the High Court, 

  • This document is the first of many you need complete when applying for divorce. 

  • Remember the following :

    • The FDF needs to be disclosed under oath. 

    • If you are dishonest in the FDF form you are guilty of perjury 

    • The parties are required to Annexed supporting documents which can and should be scrutinised  

    • The parties are at a early stage forced to not only decide for themselves what they say is in the pot but are called upon to disclose it and disclose it under oath. 

    • We have made this a digital document for your convenience. Once completed you need to print the form out, attach the supporting documents and have it signed by a commissioner of oaths. 

Download our Free Ebook for more detailed description and procedures involved divorce procedures.

Questionnaires Request form

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